Over time, the definition of a “better life” has evolved. In the past, it was often equated with simply having a stable job. Today, society frequently frames it around the idea of achieving work-life balance. Despite its popularity, many consider work-life balance a myth, while others blame external factors—such as the government—for their inability to attain it. Ultimately, the ability to strike a balance lies with each individual, driven by personal motivations and choices.
The Extremes: Workaholics vs. Quiet Quitters
In today’s work culture, two extreme responses are commonly observed: workaholism and quiet quitting. Workaholics feel a compulsion to work incessantly, often driven by external goals or internal insecurities. This phenomenon is particularly prevalent in parts of Asia, where some countries even have terms describing death from overwork.
On the other end of the spectrum, quiet quitting refers to doing only what is contractually required, without taking on extra tasks or emotional investment. This trend has gained momentum, especially among Gen Z professionals, as a coping mechanism for burnout and as an attempt to reclaim personal boundaries and achieve balance.
Interestingly, both extremes arise from the same deep longing for meaning. Workaholics seek meaning through their work, while quiet quitters pursue it outside of work. Yet neither approach often leads to lasting satisfaction, leaving many stuck in a continual search for the elusive idea of balance.
Work, Life, and Rest: Gifts to be Enjoyed
Work, life, and rest are all gifts from God, meant for enjoyment. However, the inability to enjoy these gifts often stems from misunderstanding their true purpose. Unrealistic expectations can distort how people view their work or their downtime. To truly appreciate and enjoy these aspects of life, one must seek wisdom and perspective from their source—God.
Ecclesiastes: Finding Meaning in Meaninglessness
The book of Ecclesiastes provides a profound exploration of meaning—or the lack thereof—in life. It features two distinct voices: Kohelet, who shares reflections based on personal experience, and a frame narrator, who offers context and final commentary. A central theme in the book is the Hebrew word Hevel, often translated as “vanity” or “meaninglessness,” but more accurately understood as “vapor” or “breath”—something transient and insubstantial.
Kohelet, a figure of immense wealth and influence, ultimately finds his accomplishments, pleasures, and ambitions to be empty. His reflections highlight universal limitations such as death, injustice, and the uncontrollable nature of time. These experiences fuel his sense of futility and frustration.
Fear God and Keep His Commandments
In contrast, the frame narrator affirms Kohelet’s observations but points readers toward a different conclusion: the importance of fearing God and keeping His commandments. This, we are told, is the whole duty of humanity. The reminder is that God is near—He sees not only our actions but also our hidden struggles and sins. In this light, purpose and meaning are found not in achievements or escape, but in a relationship with the divine.
Integrating the Trinity into Work and Life
True balance and fulfillment come from centering life around God. This means acknowledging God the Father as the provider of gifts and the righteous judge; recognizing Jesus the Son, who redeems our brokenness and invites us into His rest; and receiving the power of the Holy Spirit, who fills us with love, joy, peace, and reminds us of our identity as children of God—not slaves to work or circumstance.
A fitting illustration is found in a joyful bus conductor, who, despite the routine nature of his job, radiated a redeemed attitude toward his work. His joy reflected a deep understanding of purpose and identity, shaped by the reality of redemption.
Ultimately, the invitation is to live differently—to integrate every aspect of life around the Father’s provision, the Son’s redemption, and the Spirit’s empowering presence. This integration leads to a new way of being, one that moves beyond striving or detachment and into true wholeness.
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